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How To Admit To Your Foot Fetish

The sight of a freshly painted pedicure; the smell of seriously sweaty soles after an afternoon run; the feel of a smooth dancer’s arch on your hand; all these sensations may fill you with a sense of deep desire and imagination. You may have enjoyed these fantasies and personal enjoyments for years. Now, you have a partner, one with whom you feel you could share and enjoy this fancy fetish and explore the range of possibilities and sensations, but…how?

Here are some simple, not-so-intimidating steps to admit that you, ahem, have a foot fetish.

Step 1: Set the Stage

You wouldn’t just blurt out on a first date “I like anal!” Right? I mean, maybe you would, but that might not work for all women. Just sayin’. So, to set up your sweetheart for the right type of response to your special desires, you want to warm her up to it, just like you would anything else in the bedroom. Ideally, you’d like to have a sexual experience with your woman first before you decide to give them juicy details on what really makes you tick. So cozy up, get comfortable and fool around a bit.

Step 2: Feel Some Foot

Your partner has let you touch her body. Tits? Yes. Ass? Amazing. Now, it shouldn’t be so hard to get those frisky hands a little farther south to those adorable little soles that are peeking out from the couch. Try massaging her feet. Anyone who has ever had to stand on their feet for work will absolutely appreciate a warm, gentle foot massage!

Step 3: Gage Her Reaction

Is she moaning or cooing from the feeling of you massaging her sweet little soles? Does she have a smile on her face? Try advancing your type of touch to something a little more seductive. Maybe try licking or suckig her toes a bit and see how she reacts to that type of stimulation. You may be pleasantly surprised by her reaction.

Step 4: Compliment Her Feet

While they’re right in front of you, you have the perfect opportunity to plant a little kiss on her feet and tell her just how beautiful they are. This creates the perfect segue into the next segment of finally admitting that you love feet.

Step 5: Let It All Hang Out

You’ve gotten your partner naked. She’s letting you kiss her feet. She should be in a good mood. It’s the right time to let it all hang out and admit that you have a thing for sexy feet. Remember when Hugh Grant got caught with that hooker when he was dating Elizabeth Hurley, one of the most beautiful women in the world? This is easier than that. He did tons of interviews with an “aw shucks, me?” attitude and the world (and Elizabeth Hurley) fell back in love with him. You can do this. Use a little Hugh Grant humility and bumbling cuteness to admit, that, um, well, “I have a thing for feet. I really like them. I really like yours. Some might call that a foot fetish. How do you feel about that? Would you mind if I celebrated and worshipped your feet?”

Any woman worth her salt should jump up and down with joy for the fact that she is going to be worshipped like the goddess that she is. How lucky for her! If she’s not into it or reacts poorly, maybe she’s not the woman for you. If you can live with someone who doesn’t want to engage in your foot fetish fantasies, perhaps, with time, she can cozy up to the idea and see that it’s not so strange or unusual after all. She wears high heels doesn’t she? She gets pedicures, right? She might even learn to like feet herself. Take your time….and explore the options. In the meantime, start practicing your foot massage skills because that is a vital part of the early steps!

Good luck!

7 Reasons You Might Have a Foot Fetish

Many “normies” (people without a foot fetish) have wondered, “Why do you have a foot fetish?”

Oftentimes, a foot fetishist can recall a memorable moment in their formative years when they distinctly noticed a woman’s feet and thinking, “Yeah, I like that. A lot.” While this may be the most common reference point for a person with a foot fetish, a lot of people who do not have a foot fetish will wonder, “Why do you have a foot fetish?”

The short answer is: There is no one answer. There are several reasons and speculations as to why you or a friend may have acquired the sexual appetite for sexy feet and toes.

Here are the Top 7 Reasons YOU might have a foot fetish:

1. Mystery – People love things that are covered up. The more something is covered up, the more you want to uncover it. Feet are almost always covered up: by shoes, socks, boots, booties, slippers etc. Human nature often likes to push the boundaries of the norm and test limits. By unclothing a foot, voila! You have revealed a special item that before was uncovered. What a turn on. 

2. Grooming – Women’s feet are an area of focus during the beauty regiment of most women in the modern world. Sluffing, peeling, polishing, buffing, rubbing, massaging, oiling, trimming, painting, styling, the list goes on. The focus and attention women pay to grooming their sexy feet may add to the notice men give them in their daily lives. So much for elbows!

3. Dominance – Since feet are so close to the ground and we walk on them every day to get where we need to go, people often associate feet with being submissive. Feet are at the bottom of your body; therefore, they must be the lowest on the totem pole in terms of hierarchical body part categorization. In addition to their location on the body, in order to reach a person’s feet, one must typically get down on one’s knees or kneel down in a subservient position. This stance of being lower than another person immediately signifies dominance in the one standing above, displaying the feet. Many of those in the BDSM community enjoy a feeling of submission and dominance. Feet worshipping from the ground up is part of it!

4. Brain Map – If you haven’t heard this reason yet, it will blow your mind. Certain areas of the brain control certain physical functions and body parts. Right next to the genitals is…you guessed it! The feet! Being in such close proximity to the genitals, the feet might get triggered in the stimulation of the genitals and vice versa. People who have studied phantom limbs have commented on this finding and speculate that the close proximity of feet and genitals may have something to do with the brain interpreting sexual stimulation from feet.

5. Fashion Sexualization – There’s no question that women’s shoes can be incredibly sexy. When a woman’s butt is flexed, which it appears to be when she is wearing high heels, it is a signal that she is ready to have sex. The calves are flexed as well, giving a nice shape to the legs, the slender arrows to the feet.

6. Nature – Just like many people who understand homosexuality to be a born sexual preference, some people speculate that they are cognitiviely predispositioned to like feet. Years of genetic lineage? An ancestry of feet worshippers? Could it be? Check your mom’s shoe collection for clues. Ew!

7. Nurture – Back to our original proposition. Someone or something absolutely intoxicating passed by your glance at some time in your life to make you absolutely mesmerized by the gorgeous sexy image that is sexy feet.

Guess what else? Studies have shown that the more exposure a person has to a particular type of stimuli i.e. sexy feet, the more likely they are to develop an affinity for that type of sexual stimuli aka sexy feet. This writer knows that having written about and watch a lot of sexy feet content has made this writer much more interested in and inclined to incorporate sexy feet into the bedtime repertoire. Foots up!

What Is Foot Worshipping?

Many men (and women) across the globe have a particular fancy for a sensational pair of scintillating body parts known as the feet. Sexy feet have been featured as points of beauty for centuries, dating back to Cleopatra and her delicately cared-for, royally sandalled feet. The Greeks and Romans would often bathe for hours in a concoction of oils and lavender to be sure that their well-used soles were carefully attended to.

So what is it in today’s culture that foot fetishists find so enchanting about the twinkly toes and angular arches on a woman’s particular body parts? Everything from the sole to  to the heel to the arch and the in-betweens of a woman’s foot can be used as a point of erotic focus in order for a man with a foot fetish to become aroused. 

Kissing and massaging a woman’s foot may be the tip of the iceberg for some foot fetishists. Others might like to use the sucking and licking of toes and heels as a bit of foreplay, becoming more aroused at the sight, taste and touch of a woman’s foot. Ankle bracelets, tattoos, particular pedicure colors may be the sight a man needs to get off on his erotic fancy. On the more advanced side, foot gagging, trampling and stinky foot worship might be part of a foot worshipper’s repertoire of arousal. 

So what is foot worshipping? Essentially, it is the celebration of and focus on a woman’s feet as the central point of arousal. In an article by Allure Magazine, a professional dominatrix Ms. Tomorrow states that “she has submissives who are very shoe-oriented. These submissives really get off on tying shoes and heels to their faces, to be immersed in the smell. They will also insert their penises into the shoes and use shoes as a masturbatory aid.” She goes on to say, “There are a wide variety of oddly specific foot fetishists – same can be said for sock fetishists. Socks stuffed into the mouth as a gag, dirty socks to be cleaned, even wearing certain kinds of socks can be a part of sock-focused kink play.”

While masturbation and hiring the services of a professional dominatrix may be your thing, on a more casual lifestyle level, men (and women) who have a foot fetish can feel free to practice these more informal types of foot worship at home with their lover or out and about with their lovers of choice: 

8 Ways to Practice Foot Worship At Home: 

  1. Draw a warm bath for your goddess and watch her soak her feet in hot water, preparing them for their silky insertion into your mouth. 
  2. Massage her perfectly smooth feet and enhance the scent with lotions of your choosing. 
  3. Lick the sweaty dripping bottoms of a foot that has just gone on a run, done some yoga or gotten out of a sauna. 
  4. Select your lover’s color for a pedicure and ask for pictures at the salon.
  5. Select her footwear for the day. Make sure she takes pics and abides by your wishes.
  6. Press your face up against the bottom of her soles as she stands atop of you practicing dirty talk as you wish. 
  7. Tickle the bottom of her feet until she can’t handle it anymore and is begging for more of you to violate her. 
  8. Introduce some BDSM elements to your foot worship and see where the naughty night takes you!

Foot worship can be as light or as in-depth as you want it to take you. Explore your fresh new fantasy, if it’s new for you! Introduce your partner to your form of enjoyment by giving her a foot massage and see where it goes from there. Let your feet lead the way!